KINDS OF THINGS WRONG AND INITIALLY SOME KIDS WILL THINK IT'S WRONG BECAUSE WE GET PUNISHED FOR IT BUT THEN WE CAN HELP THEM THROUGH THE PROCESS OF DISCUSSION TO COME TO SEE THAT WE PUNISH THOSE THINGS BECAUSE THEY ARE WRONG THEY ARE NOT WRONG BECAUSE THEY ARE PUNISHED WE HAVE TO GET THE ARROW GOING IN THE RIGHT