MORE SUCCESSFUL THEN I'LL BE HAPPIER THAT UNDERGIRDS MOST OF OUR PARENTING AND MANAGING STYLES THE WAY THAT WE MOTIVATE OUR BEHAVIOR AND THE PROBLEM IS IT'S SCIENTIFICALLY BROKEN AND BACKWARDS FOR TWO REASONS EVERY TIME YOUR BRAIN HAS A SUCCESS YOU JUST CHANGED THE GOALPOST OF WHAT SUCCESS LOOKED LIKE YOU GOT GOOD GRADES NOW YOU HAVE TO GET BETTER