BUT BELIEVE ME WHEN I SAY THAT WHAT YOU CAN GAIN FROM THIS EXPERIENCE IS FAR GREATER THAN WHAT YOU'VE LOST MOST OF THE TIME YOU DON'T HAVE SAY WHETHER OR NOT YOU'RE GOING THROUGH A PROBLEM LIKE THIS WITH ANY CRISIS THERE'S A LOT OF DANGER BUT THERE'S ALSO A LOT OF OPPORTUNITY WHEN STARING CANCER IN THE FACE YOU LEARN WHO