THE POINT IS WE HAVE TO LET OUR CHILDREN SUCCEED ON THEIR OWN TERMS AND YES ON OCCASION FAIL ON THEIR OWN TERMS I WAS TALKING TO WARREN BUFFETT'S BANKER AND HE WAS CHIDING ME FOR NOT LETTING MY CHILDREN MAKE MISTAKES WITH THEIR ALLOWANCE AND I SAID BUT WHAT IF THEY DRIVE INTO A DITCH HE SAID IT'S MUCH