YOU CERTAINLY WOULD WANT CLINICIAN IN FRONT OF YOU WHO COULD EXPLAIN WHAT WAS HAPPENING IN TERMS THAT YOU COULD UNDERSTAND IT THAT WOULDN'T SCARE OR FRIGHTEN YOU THAT WOULD HELP YOU FEEL LIKE I CAN GET THROUGH THIS WE CAN GET THROUGH THIS JUST A LITTLE EXAMPLE I WORK WITH A LOT OF KIDS AND SOMETIMES WE MAY SAY